Selasa, 01 Mei 2012


demi mengenang cupunya masa kuliah share aja tugas literary dr Bu Yayuk dengan segala English yang buleputen tanpa editan,, *isiiiiin

AN UNFAIR NARROW WORLD FOR WOMAN IN THE SCARLET LETTER

 
  1. Introduction
God has created humans in male and female. They were made to be couple to live their life. They are made to live together and to share each other so that each of them will obtain the same share in everything.
                However, the fact sometimes is not that way. In some cases the reality shows different thing, especially talking about what so called Gender. The gender distance of this era, despite of various movement against it, is still a very hot and interesting issue to discuss where a man is considered more than a woman in many things. It is not bad if we see what The Almighty Allah has said in His Holy Book Qur'an, An-Nisa' 32 and 34. In the verse 32  Allah said that He has given things more to men and prohibited women to be envious and even in the verse 34 He said that men are the leaders of women. In these two verses Allah said clearly that He has given men more parts than women. However, further discussion is needed. Does it mean that men and women are different? Many more explanation related to the field are still needed so that men will not be big headed claiming that they have full rights to treat women the way they want. Vice verse, women will not give up by claiming that no choice except accepting the destiny to be the servants or slaves for men. Not purposing to deny the holy Verse of Allah, but it is to dig more and more the secret of what He said in his Holy Book.
                It cant be denied that in society women play a big role to determine the value of the society. Women's behaviors are always noticed. The way they talk and the way they act will be always seen as something attracting. Following the natural rule, a woman who did this is called This and who did that is called That. To be a silent woman seems to be not enough to do. A woman should be like this and like that following what the society wants and thinks because they are the most powerful judge.
                In my writing then, I'd like to identify the problem faced by the women as the centered eye catch  in society  in the novel concerning unfair judge and treatment of the society and the feeling of women at that time by analyzing the characters' feeling.
 
  1. About the Novel
The novel is entitled The Scarlet Letter. It tells about women's life in several centuries ago. The story is about a woman who lived in her loneliness and was left by her husband. She lived in a town where she was not familiar with before. Everything was getting worse when she was in love with  an honourable man in the town till pregnant. She lived in a town in which an adulteresss had no place to hold her head high.
                It cannot be denied that to be pregnant without having a husband is an awful thing. This woman will be considered immoral woman. This might be because the religious values held by the society at that time. A society with very strong religious values will take it as a very big problem. However, in any cases we should not judge a thing from one side without seeing other possible side about the case.
                In this novel Haster Prynne is a wife of a man named Prynne. Her husband sent her alone to a town she was not familiar with. She did not get anything that wives usually got from their husbands. The problem began when she was pregnant without her husband by her side. A very big mistake done so that the society blamed her, want her punished, and wanted to know who actually the father of the baby was. A mysterious man appeared and frightened Hester and her daughter. The man was her own husband, Prynne, who came to find out who was the father of her daughter. Hester had tried to keep silent not to tell anyone the father’s name who was actually the honorable man named Arthur Dimmensdale. People admire and respect him so much so that Hester could not see the man she loved being punished by the society. But finally, she could not keep silent anymore when Prynne tried to hurt Arthur. They planned to run away from her husband and the people, but finally they decided to tell the truth about the fact that the society wanted to know. After the big secret was revealed Arthur and her husband died and she left the town with her daughter. After years, she came back to the town still brought her bitter love story. She said, "One day, when God is ready, there will be a new world-a better world for women. We will be the same as men. Everybody will understand that only love can make us happy. One day. But not today. This last sentences show that Hester felt so sorry that women at that time including her must experience an awful thing, especially in holding their rights. At least their rights to live their own life. 

 
  1. An Unfair World for Women
The novel seems to uncover how the women's life was in several centuries ago. The women had no rights to choose a choice and to determine their own life. This was seen from the fact that they had to get married with someone they might not love or even never recignized before. Whatever and however the men were, they just had to accept them without complaining because there was someone who had already determined everything for them as if they did not know their original life. This is what is meant by an unfair world for women. Women had no rights to live their own lives. When they are married with husbands they had to accept whatever decision their husbands decided because they were now owned by their husbands. For example, Hester was sent alone to a town she was not familiar with before without her husband accompanying her so that she was very lonely. Worse she became pregnant. What will the world say?
In this context the woman as the one who is pregnant will be the only one who is blamed! She will be considered an adulteress! Without considering and determining how is actually the background of her life.
People blame her and want her punished. There are no spaces for for such a woman. She is humilated and blamed for the mistake. People do not want to know why such a thing could happen. No woman wants such a thing happen to her.
Let's take a look at Hester's life. She was married with a man she did not love. Then, she was sent to a town alone and lived there alone without accompanion and responsibility given by her husband. As she was left alone her rights as a wife were not fulfilled, so how could live as a good wife to do her duties to his husband? However people did not take it to account. An adulteress remains an adulteress. Hester as the adulteress acknoledge her mistake but still try to to cry to the world what an unfair world she experienced. Till the end of her love storywhen the society began to accept her ahe still wish for a better world for women where love is the only thing that can make them happy.
  1. Conclusion
To be pregnant without having a husband is indeed an awful thing that should not happen, that we should avoid. However we could not close our eyes from the reality that it can happen to the people around us. We should not be so close minded that we close every door for women with such problem. When such a problem appears it is not the time to blame someone, but rather to find the way out for all. We should be smart society who can prevent  a bad thing appear and be a wise society who can solve the problem appearing peacefully.

Sabtu, 17 September 2011

Aku dan Daunku...

Sepiku sendiri
Tengok kananku, tengok kiriku
Sama saja
Kemana gerangan orang-orangku?
Aku sendiri, sepi
Mana bisa?

Tatapku daun-daunku tertiup
Sapu tanah atau main tanah?
Daunku berkejaran,
Berlarian tak tentu arah
Angin bertepuk kasih semangat
Semakin keras bertepuk, semakin daunku senang
Berlonjak!

Sepiku lagi, angin berhenti
Tatapku daunku
Bisik, berbisik, berisik
Singkapku telingaku
Ingin ku mendengarku
Inginku bergabungku
Biar tak sepi lagi

Bukaku mataku
Bukaku telingaku
Bukaku pi
kiranku
Sepiku

Nyatanya
Tetapku sendiriku,
Tak bisa dengar daunku
Aku bukan daunku,
Daunku bukan aku
Aku utuh sempurna,
Daunku tak begitu
Satu
Satu samaku
Dengan daunku
Mampuku dzikirku,mampunya dzikirnya
Kalahkah aku???
Renungku

”Yusabbihu lahuu maa fissamaawaati wal ardli"
April 4, 2004 at 7.50 a.m


How I really miss you, Dad...


Pejamkan mata sejenak, dan yakin bahwa bapak tidak ada saat berbuka karena lebih memilih untuk adzan magrib dulu seperti Ramadan biasanya
Pejamkan mata sejenak , dan percaya bahwa bapak sedang ada diruang tamu tadarus ba’da Magrib seperti Magrib-magrib sebelumnya
Pejamkan mata sejenak, dan tenang bahwa bapak sedang tertidur pulas didepan TV seperti malam-malam biasanya
Pejamkan mata sejenak, dan segera bangun karena tahu bapak telah lebih dulu bangun tengah malam untuk 2 rakaat seperti tengah malam sebelumnya
Pejamkan mata sejenak, dan segera bangun sahur karena bapak selalu jadi orang yang pertama menyiapkan sahur seperti Ramadan sebelumnya
Pejamkan mata sejenak,,, dan berharap gundukan tanah merah dengan batu nisan ini tak nyata,,
How I really wished you were still here...
How I really wished not to loose you seven days before Lebaran so it doesn’t hurt this much...
How I really miss you, Dad...

Sabtu, 02 Juli 2011

Kebanggaan Diri BUKAN Kesombongan.....

Aku ykn dan prcya...
Stiap tetes keringat yg menetes yg tak menetes dr tubuh mrk...akan meneteskan kesejukan dihr dpnku...

Aku ykn dan prcya...
Stiap kantuk yg ku tahan yg mrk tak prnh rSakan..akan membawaku pd perasaan yg menentramkan...

Aku ykn dan percya...
Stiap rsa pegal yg menyerang yg mrk tak rasakan...akan membawaku pd kenyamanan...

Aku ykn dan prcy...
Stiap gelap nya mlm yg ku tembus yg mrk tak pandang...akan mengantrku pd terangny masa depan...

Sungguh ini bkn kesombongan...

Hanya Motivasi Diri dan teman teman untuk selalu OPTIMIS dan SEMANGAT dlm mengerjakan kesibukan yg ada SESULIT apapun itu....

on Thursday, October 29, 2009 at 3:04pm


Untuk Inilah Aku Ada... Dengan Inilah Aku Bahagia..

Satu yg tak ku malas,,, saat ku hrs bgn pg krn hrs mngrjkn kwjbnku yg memang tlh terjdwl...

Satu yg ku tak takut... Saat harus pulang larut krn memang pkrjaanku menuntut...

Satu yg ku tak mau mengeluh... Saat ku hrs brmndi peluh krn jdwl yg penuh

Satu yg ku tak khwtr berkurang... Saat ku bagi yg ku tahu dgn mereka yg haus pengetahuan...

Satu yg tak ingin ku lewatkan... Saat mengntarkan mrka kpd satu pemahaman

Satu yg kbahagiaanku tak bs terukur... Saat menangkap ucpn terima kasih dr sorot mata mrka saat mrk mencium tangan berpamitan pulang....

Ya Allah, terima kasih... Kini ku tahu ini lah kepercayaan Mu yg
kan ku jaga.....krn kini ku tahu....
Untuk Inilah Aku Ada dan Dgn Inilah Aku Bahagia....
                                                                                                          
by Wahyu Nur Indah Kurniasari on Saturday, November 7, 2009 at 4:37pm
(5.36 pm, on mikrolet 37,, way home from work)

keluhku pengantar syukurku,,,

Ya Allah Tuhanku...
Apa yg tak Kau beri untukku???

Rasa sakit yg sangat saat Kau uji aku dgn membuatku mlht orng2 terkasihku tak berdaya tersakiti krn fitnah makhlukMu

Rs sesal menyesakkan saat ku tahu Kau putuskan aku dgn seseorng yg ku anggap Kau ciptakan dia untukku....


Rasa perih menyayat saat mrk yg ku sebut sahabat jstru mnjd orng yg yg paling bs mmbuatku menguras air mata lara...

Dan....

Rasa bimbang membingungkan saat ku tak th hrs kmna ku langkahkan kakiku mlnjutkn hidup...

Tidak Tuhan... aku tdk sdng menghujatMu...

karena ku jg brtnya2...

Apa yg tak Kau karuniakan padaku?

Kau gnti sakitku dgn kebahagiaan krn kebersamaan dgn orng2 trkshku dan mlht tawa mrka yg jauh lbh lama....

Kau gnti sesalku dgn kprcyaan bhwa sll ada yg trbaik yg kan dtng dimasa depan...

Kau gnti perihku dgn mmbntuku dgn mnjga sahabat2 yg lain dan jg mempertemukanku dgn shbt2 lain yg luar biasa...

Kau gnti bimbangku dgn kepercayaan Mu mmberiku tanggung jwb untuk mlnjutkan hdp mncri rzkiMu...

Ya Allah Tuhanku...

Maafkan aku yg smpt mengeluh...tp sungguh smua itu mngntarkan ku btpa tak pnts ny aku saat ku sadari btpa byk nikmat yg sangat yg hrs aku syukuri....

Minggu, 12 Juni 2011

ANGIN BERPESAN


Di hutan…
Pohon berbaris kokoh
Menjulang,
Kencang tiupan angin kencang
Pohon bergoyang
Hampa tiada harapan

Ingin ku dengar satu panggilan
Disini, dengan berjuta pepohonan
Bukan panggilan angin
Bukan ajakan goyang
Ingin ku dengar seruan
Seruan tuntunan…


Angin berhembus halus
Bawakan pesan
Pesan itu, Pesan Tuhan…
Panggilan itu,seruan itu…
Datang???



Sewindu, May 14. 2004
On my desk